Baby Massage and Swaddling

02/02/2024

Baby Massage and Swaddling– Calm, Connection, and Safety for Your Baby

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Baby Massage: Loving Touch for Calm and Connection

Baby massage originates from India and is known there as Shantala massage. This method was introduced to Europe by French doctor Frédérick Leboyer, who observed how an Indian woman — Shantala — massaged her baby daily. In India, baby massage is a natural part of daily care — and for good reason.

Shantala massage is rhythmic, loving, and centered on contact, calm, and repetition. Key elements include:

  • Direct skin-to-skin contact

  • A warm environment

  • A calm atmosphere with soft scents

  • Eye contact and a gentle voice

  • A consistent order of movements

Together, these factors create a sense of security and comfort. Baby massage strengthens the bond between parent and child and can promote both physical and emotional calm.

Who is Baby Massage Suitable For?

Baby massage is suitable for all babies, but it can be especially helpful if your baby:

  • Has trouble sleeping

  • Cries a lot

  • Experiences digestive discomfort or colic

  • Is restless or overstimulated

During the massage, serotonin — the "happy hormone" — is released, while cortisol — the stress hormone — decreases. This has several positive effects:

  • Lower heart rate

  • Calmer breathing

  • Better sleep

  • Positive influence on brain development, growth, and immunity

It's also valuable for you as a parent: baby massage provides a moment of real attention and connection. It can boost your confidence and relieve stress — especially helpful if you're experiencing a postnatal dip.

Baby Massage Courses

Would you like to learn how to do this yourself? Various courses are available.

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Baby Massage Course — Doula Nagomi

Baby Massage Course

Relax and connect

As a certified Shantala baby massage instructor I will teach you how to give your baby a relaxing massage including a couple of yoga stretches. You can start with a baby massage course when your baby is around 4 weeks. Baby massage is quite simple, but complex because of its simplicity. I will teach you the right techniques, contraindications, body language and how to create a relaxing setting.

It’s scientifically proven that skin-to-skin contact between parent and child is crucial for their development. Baby massage improves the attachment process between parent and baby. It gives a feeling of security and that is a very welcome feeling for your baby, whose world has completely changed since being born. Baby massage can help to bring relief from colic, teething, obstipation, sleep issues, growing pain, cold symptoms and overstretching.

Your baby can become overstimulated quickly, therefore the course is divided over 3 days. The complete Shantala baby massage routine takes about 30 minutes and ends with taking a bath.

Duration: 3 sessions of 50 minutes

Price: € 150,- excl. VAT

© 2025 Doula Nagomi. Recognized member of the Dutch Professional Association for Doulas.

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Shantala - Baby Massage Course (Udemy)

Shantala - Baby Massage Course

Learn and Share This Ancient Baby Massage Technique

Instructor: Lizandra Deister

Language: English

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What You'll Learn

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  • Contraindications of Shantala :contentReference[oaicite:3]{index=3}
  • Preparation of the Baby, Caregiver and Environment :contentReference[oaicite:4]{index=4}
  • Shantala Massage Technique:
    • Face
    • Torso
    • Arms & Hands
    • Legs & Feet
    • Back
    • Final Exercises
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Requirements

An open heart is all you need! :contentReference[oaicite:6]{index=6}

Description

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The course covers:

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Who This Course Is For

This course is suitable for:

  • Parents
  • Grandparents
  • Nurses
  • Caregivers
  • Healers
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Je kunt natuurlijk ook verder lezen in een mooi boek (aanrader!):

Bol.com – Baby Massage (Peter Walker)

Baby Massage

Auteur: Peter Walker

ISBN / EAN: 9780600638292 :contentReference[oaicite:0]{index=0}

Uitvoering: Paperback, 96 pagina’s :contentReference[oaicite:1]{index=1}

Taal: Engels :contentReference[oaicite:2]{index=2}

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Door regelmatig te masseren kun je onder andere helpen bij wind, verstopping, stress en slaapproblemen bij je baby. :contentReference[oaicite:4]{index=4}

Gemaakt met gegevens van Bol.com. Let op: prijs en beschikbaarheid kunnen wijzigen.

 Swaddling: Creating Calm for a Restless BabyI

Swaddling involves wrapping your baby snugly and safely in a cloth, primarily restricting arm movements. This can help babies who have trouble falling asleep, cry a lot, or are very restless in bed.

Swaddling reduces the likelihood that your baby wakes up due to their startle reflex, leading to more calm, routine, and better sleep patterns.

How Does Swaddling Work?

With traditional swaddling, you place the baby's arms alongside the body and wrap the baby tightly. Nowadays, there are also user-friendly alternatives, such as:

> Swaddle blankets

Pacco


Bundi

Boeli 

  • Inbakerslaapzakken (zonder armsgaten):

Woombie

Ergococoon

Puckababy Mini

With swaddle sleep sacks, the arms are still wrapped, but the baby is less tightly bound. For some babies, this is more comfortable and practical to use.

Note: Swaddling should always be done safely.

Take a course where you will be guided step by step on how to do this correctly.

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When and How to Wean Off Swaddling?

Do not stop swaddling abruptly; gradually wean your baby instead. Guidelines:

  • Start weaning around 4 months

  • Stop completely before 6 months of age

  • With swaddle sleep sacks, you can often start weaning around 3 months

Why this timing? Around six months, babies usually start rolling over. If a baby is still tightly swaddled at that stage, it can be unsafe. Safety always comes first.



Personal Experience

With my middle son, I used swaddling with a wrap because he was very restless. However, swaddling too tightly had the opposite effect — it made him sad. From three months onward, we switched to a sleep sack. This gave him both calm and the freedom he needed. After that, he noticeably slept better.

In my work as a parent coach, I have also supported many parents with swaddling. At first, it can seem complicated, but with a little practice and guidance, it usually works quickly. Parents are often surprised at how fast their baby calms down.

In Conclusion

Baby massage and swaddling are wonderful ways to provide your baby with calm, security, and structure. They not only contribute to your child's well-being but also strengthen the bond between you as parent and child.

Thank you for reading. Take good care of yourself, be gentle with yourself — and in turn, with your child. Until the next blog!

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